She is a successful cam model who loves what she does and has recently set new short and long-term goals. She takes criticism with a grain of salt and loves constructive criticism as it motivates her to become the best cam model she can be. She recently attended the Streamate Model Mixer in Vegas and made many awesome connections. Amber has had no regrets since she started camming, as she has now incorporated femdom into her camming, which has doubled her income!

She has faced challenges with her motivation but has found that being open about them with other models she trusts has helped her learn that she is not alone. Amber’s strangest sexual experience was in a playground in downtown Sacramento. In relationships, she looks for someone who knows how to take charge and communicate effectively. She appreciates romantic gestures such as acts of service or bringing her favorite coffee or candy.

How do you define success?
For me, success isn’t easily measurable or even completely constant. Success ebbs and flows, which means doing what makes you happiest at that given time and, most importantly, learning to own it and be unapologetic about it. It’s learning to take the little wins and view them as big successes because, at the end of the day, all of those little wins add up to your collective successfulness.

What are your short-term and long-term goals?
I absolutely love what I do, I’ve always wanted to be a cam model, so I’ve recently had to set some new short and long-term goals for myself since I’ve already met many of the ones I previously had set for myself. My goal for 2023 is to have my first 6 figure year! It will be my first full year in the industry, and based on last year, I feel this will be attainable. Long term, I think it would be amazing to own a cam studio that way, I can continue to help new models and expand upon that!

How do you handle criticism?
It honestly depends on the type of criticism since it seems these days EVERYONE has something to say about everything you do. I often take criticism with a grain of salt or laugh it off. At the end of the day, all that matters is that I am happy with what I am doing. On the very off chance that someone provides CONSTRUCTIVE criticism, especially from models I admire, I soak it up like a sponge. I absolutely LOVE constructive criticism. It motivates me to do better, expand my horizons, and become the best cam model I can be!

Tell us about a memorable cam life experience.
I recently attended the Streamate Model Mixer in Vegas, which was amazing! I got to meet so many models that I watch all the time on cam, and it was crazy that they were sitting right in front of me instead of viewing them through a screen. Everyone was so nice and welcoming, and it feels AMAZING to be a part of such a great community. I made many awesome connections and lifelong friendships on this trip, and I wouldn’t have traded it for the world! I can’t wait to go again next year!!

Do you have any regrets since you started camming?
My only regret since I started my camming career is not getting into femdom sooner! I started my career off exclusively as a sub, and people would ask me for domme-related stuff all the time, but I was so nervous, as this is something I had never done before in my personal life. After a few coaching calls with my mentor and studio owner, I felt I was starting to get the hang of things and was ready to make my new and improved cam debut. My income easily doubled just by expanding what I offer on cam, and I think to myself all the time, “I can’t believe I didn’t start doing this sooner!” Now I would say about 80% of my interactions on cam are domme related, and I wouldn’t have it any other way!

What challenges have you faced, and how did you overcome them?
I struggle a lot with my motivation. I get overwhelmed easily and tend to beat myself up and self-sabotage a lot, so learning to work past this has definitely been a struggle and, honestly, something I’m still working on! I’ve found that being open about the challenges you face with other models you trust is the best thing you can do in this situation. You learn that you’re not alone in this. There are so many amazing people who are more than happy to help support and guide you. When I’m feeling extremely unmotivated, my go-to is to do a call with my mentor. She’s so helpful in helping me identify the specifics of what is holding me back. Finding a supportive community is ESSENTIAL in this industry!

Where is the strangest place you’ve ever had sex in?
The strangest place I ever had sex was in a playground in downtown Sacramento. (don’t worry, it was like 2 am, so no kiddos were around, obviously) This wasn’t my first time, or last, having sex publicly, but it definitely was the most exhilarating just based on how easy it would be for us to get caught. We realized afterward there was a cop parked near us, and I’m pretty sure he saw the whole thing (whoops, haha)

What qualities do you look for in a romantic partner?
As I previously mentioned, I am a naturally submissive person in my personal life, so I definitely look for someone who knows how to take charge. But for me, the most important thing is that my partner is emotionally sensitive and knows how to communicate effectively. I do best in relationships built on trust and understanding, and communicating your feelings to your partner without being insensitive is a big aspect of that trust for me. I definitely go based on personality more than looks. You can be the most physically attractive person I’ve ever met, but you instantly become ugly if your personality isn’t attractive to me. I try to surround myself with like-minded individuals in romantic and platonic relationships.

What kind of romantic gestures do you appreciate?
I most appreciate acts of service. When my partner rubs my feet after a long day or makes dinner because I’m too tired, those moments are when I really feel most loved. It really is the simplest things sometimes, like opening doors for me or making sure that I’m walking inside the sidewalk, that will give me butterflies. Stuff like bringing home my favorite coffee or picking out candy you know I like at the register honestly means the world to me and fills my heart with such joy. I’m a simple gal. Show me you think about me when I’m not there and genuinely care about my well-being. That’s all I ask for.

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