The experience that orgasm comes when it wants (or not) is familiar to most women. That’s why here comes a plea for enjoyment instead of pressure to perform. This is better for you and love – and now it even has a name: Karezza (also known as Coitus reservatus).
However, this does mean above all that you don’t need the ejaculation of the man to have good sex. But even women don’t have to put themselves under the pressure to come either.
The two partners practically always come. Annoying, but normal, research confirms: Women come in a relationship about 80 percent of the time, singles about 70 percent, according to a study by the University of Indiana. This discrepancy is then called the “orgasm gap”.
Why do women often not have an orgasm?
There are many possible reasons for a lack of climax. One of the most important: Lack of stimulation. For many women, sex is the sub-optimal pathway to orgasm because the clitoris is not sufficiently stimulated.
But over-stimulation in the central nervous system can also be to blame: stress and distraction cause more trouble for women than men.
The male brain is designed to ward off all distractions – the female one not so much. Perhaps because only the orgasm of the man is necessary for reproduction?
What other reasons are there for orgasm problems?
Of course, the form of the day also plays a role. In addition, medications such as antidepressants, anxiety, neurological problems can also hinder the pleasure high.
Even the social claim that you also have to function in bed can be stressful: “Many feel stressed by the pressure of having to come,” says sexual physician Dr. Elia Bragagna from Vienna. “But achieving an orgasm and having to make an effort for it doesn’t fit together.”
According to Bragagna, 76 percent of women are happy in love and life, even if they don’t always experience a climax. Orgasm is a possibility, not a duty.
Of course, sometimes the man needs a helping hand too – so why not read our article about sex tips for men for some great ideas.
Can sex be better without an orgasm?
Simple answer: Yes, it can. And that’s when you’re more likely to get involved in the sex itself and not work too hard towards a goal. This also means: Don’t just consider “the one” as sex.
Many couples equate sex with penetration. With the result that everything else is degraded to “foreplay” before it goes on to the “real thing”.
For many women, manual and oral sex is the best way to the most intense arousal. “Men should accept that women are the expert for their lust.”
In addition, you should learn to appreciate the pleasure of each other in its entirety. Sex has intense moments even without orgasm, “such as the pleasure of intense closeness, the feeling of feeling the partner inside you, the fun of being birded, or the shudder when you look into each other’s eyes.”
That’s why it’s like on Instagram: Don’t miss the most wonderful moments while you make an effort to stage them perfectly!
LiveJasmin Completes Major Financial Systems Upgrade
LiveJasmin has completed a major software and hardware upgrade to its financial systems after several days of technical work that caused a temporary 1–2 day delay in payment processing.
According to company co-founder Karoly Papp, this was the first time in LiveJasmin’s 25 years of operation that the financial period closing had to be postponed.
The company chose to keep its website and services operational throughout the migration rather than taking the platform offline for one or two days. Although users experienced some minor disruptions, the technical team reportedly worked almost around the clock for nearly a week to resolve an unexpected issue and complete the transition.
The migration is now fully completed, and payment processing should return to its normal schedule.
LiveJasmin thanked its technical team for their dedication, as well as its partners and users for their patience and understanding during the upgrade.
LALEXPO | United for Colombia: Let’s Help Earthquake Victims
At LALEXPO, we believe that our industry has both the power and the responsibility to come together when our country needs us the most.
Following the earthquake that has affected several regions of Colombia, including Cali, Pereira, Manizales, and Chocó, many families are facing extremely difficult circumstances, with material losses and urgent needs.
For this reason, we would like to extend a special invitation to our sponsors and partners: let us come together as a community and support those who have been affected.
Through LALEXPO and Fundación Liam, we will coordinate donations and support for affected communities. Every contribution, regardless of its size, can help provide food, essential supplies, emergency kits, and other resources to those who need our solidarity the most.
Today, we ask you to stand with us not as sponsors, but as allies of Colombia.
If your company would like to make a financial donation or contribute resources, products, or essential supplies, our team will be available to coordinate the contribution and help ensure that the support reaches those who need it most.
As a legally established nonprofit organization, Fundación Liam can provide official donation certificates upon request, which donors may use for applicable tax purposes.
Colombia needs us. And together, we can make a difference.
Thank you for being part of the LALEXPO community and, above all, for helping us demonstrate that when we come together, we can create a real and meaningful impact.
Stripchat has restored Amazon Wishlist links, allowing models to once again share their wishlists with fans and receive gifts through the platform.
The feature now includes an additional consent step focused on privacy. Before adding a wishlist link, models must confirm that they understand Amazon may disclose their delivery address to third parties, including gift buyers.
To add an Amazon Wishlist, models need to go to My Profile, paste the link into the Amazon Wishlist field, check the privacy notice box, and save the changes.
If the privacy notice is not accepted, the wishlist link will remain hidden. The update keeps Amazon Wishlist sharing available on Stripchat while giving models clearer control over the associated privacy risks.
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