Selfcare & Sexual Wellness

Best WoManSturbation Positions

Masturbation is a normal thing and it is proven to be the most ‘direct’ way to explore your sexual needs and the areas that bring you erotic pleasures, which the human body and mind need.
In addition, it is the safest way to receive sexual pleasure without unwanted consequences of any kind, moreover, it is a really healthy thing. Exploring your body will help you ‘cultivate’ your sexuality and improve the quality of the sexual act, just as you will improve your knowledge of what you love and what you don’t love when it comes to sex.
Certainly, we also know the benefits of masturbation, both mentally and physically, such as relaxation and distressing.
Masturbation that has an orgasmic end will cause the brain to enter a chemical process of releasing endorphins – feel good chemicals.
When it comes to women, orgasms are exactly like an analgesic when having menstrual cramps.

In this article, we will talk about the most interesting positions for improving the ‘self-loving’ process and how we can intensify erotic pleasure.

Ladies first – enjoy!

Best Masturbation Positions For Women

Starlet Position is about standing on your knees on the bed, or on a surface that is comfortable and soft, and keeping your upper body upright. Open your knees in the position you feel most comfortable with. You can lean forward or back, as you feel your own body is dictating.

This position allows you to explore several points that will bring you satisfaction, you can use toys for penetration or external stimulation.

Helping Hand
This is a very interesting position for those who are beginners in exploring their own body, just as it is not a complicated or intimidating position. Lie on your back, cross your legs, reach out and touch your body to find the points of pleasure. When you keep your legs crossed, the vibrator or hands will remain stable once you discover the feeling good areas. A trick for this position is to keep one arm above your head, this will help you arch your back to put your pelvis at a more favorable angle for reaching the orgasm.

Invisible lover
A dildo is what you need for this position! Pop a dildo on a chair, or where you feel comfortable and go wild! It is a position that will offer you the freedom to rock your hips and feel the ‘penetration’ deep and intense. This position will help you get rid of some inhibitions if you have them.

Explode like never before
If you want an exploding orgasm, try this! Lie on your stomach on a pillow with your hand between your legs. Start by stimulating your clitoris and pubic mound by grinding your legs together and moving your hips up and down. You can try using egg toys to intensify the orgasm.

Tap-Tap it!
When it comes to masturbation, the most intuitive move for a woman is to rub the clitoris, but did you ever try to tap-tap it? You’ll feel a sensation like never before, lay on one side with one leg extended and the other bent. Tenderly separate and hold your labia to the sides, and apply a tiny drop of lube to your clitoris. Using your other hand, start tapping the clitoris by intensifying the speed and the pressure.

Best Masturbation Positions For Men
G-Spot
You’ve all heard about that ‘G-Spot’, and when it comes to men, this spot is called the prostate. This gland located inside your bottom is capable of producing very powerful climaxes and even multiple orgasms in men. Rub the area between your cock and your anus, also known as the ‘gooch’. You’ll find a spot that feels very relaxing when you rub it. By combining this ‘massage’ with usual masturbation techniques, it will bring you an orgasm to remember.

Overhand
If you never tried anything but classical ‘hand position’ when it comes to stroking your penis, you can try doing this from a slightly different angle. Hold your penis ‘overhand’ with your wrist bent down grabbing your cock from above rather than below. And now, make the classical movements you usually feel are right for you. This would bring you a new level of satisfaction.

Hold the base
If you have some cumming difficulties, or if you want a long jacking-off session, you have to try this position for sure! You can start by grabbing your penis as you would normally do, and try to hold it by the base and stroke up and down in small strokes. By doing this, you will reduce the glans stimulation, which makes it easier to last longer.

F-Spot
Put some lube on the end of your finger and simply massage your frenulum in circular motions, you’ll feel goosebumps for sure! This technique is about gently rubbing your F-Spot (the V-shaped part of your penis).

Polish it!
This simple but gooooood feeling technique focuses on pleasuring the very tip of your penis.
By doing this, you’ll feel a gradual but very sensitive ejaculation. Start by grabbing the middle of your penis with one hand and place the palm of your other hand on the top of your penis head. Warning! Use a ton of lube, as it may cause pain if it is dry.

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Selfcare & Sexual Wellness

Legal to Sell, Illegal to Buy: The Paradox of France’s Prostitution Law

The European Court of Human Rights (ECtHR) on Thursday ruled that France’s criminalization of the sale and purchase of sexual acts/prostitution does not constitute a violation of Article 8 of the European Convention on Human Rights (ECHR).

Case Overview

The case, M.A. and Others v France was ruled unanimously. 261 applicants complained against Law no. 2016-444 of 13 April 2016, which aimed at criminalizing prostitution in France. This law intended to “strengthen the fight against the prostitution system and provide support to prostituted individuals.” Applicants relied on Articles 2, 3, and 8 of the ECHR for their case. These individuals argued that criminalizing the purchase of sexual acts affects the physical and mental integrity of individuals who commonly participate in prostitution and violates their right to private life, personal autonomy, and sexual freedom.

Legal Reasoning

The Court judged the applicants’ complaint principally based on Article 8 ECHR, which refers to the right to respect for everyone’s private and family life. According to the official document, interference with this right is unacceptable except when done “in accordance with the law and as is necessary for a democratic society in the interests of national security, public safety or the economic well-being.” The French Government submitted that the aim of Law no. 2016-444 was “combatting prostitution rings and human-trafficking networks,” which the Court considered a legitimate aim within the meaning of Article 8 ECHR.

Ethical Considerations and International Consensus

During the judgment, the ECtHR also referred to the moral and ethical “sensitivity” of the problems linked with prostitution. It specified the lack of consensus among the European and international community on how to address prostitution correctly. Reem Alsalem, UN Special Rapporteur on violence against women and girls, in 2023, commented on French Law no. 2016-444. The Special Rapporteur argued in favor of the comprehensive approach taken by the law, stating:

“Far from ensuring access to the rights guaranteed by articles 2, 3, and 8 of the ECHR, the potential repeal of the criminalization of the purchase of sexual acts would further expose the most discriminated women and girls, who are the overwhelming majority in the sex trade, to the control, violence, and inhumane and degrading treatment of trafficking networks and sex buyers.”

Legal to Sell, Illegal to Buy

French law presents an unusual dynamic where it is legal to sell sex but illegal to buy it. This approach aims to reduce demand for prostitution while protecting those who may be forced into selling sex due to economic hardship or coercion. The logic is that by targeting buyers, the law reduces the market for prostitution, thereby decreasing the exploitation of vulnerable individuals.

Ongoing Debate

Despite this ruling, the criminalization of prostitution remains a heated debate with conflicting opinions. The ECtHR held that France had not overstepped its discretion and did not violate Article 8 of the Convention. However, it emphasized the duty of the French Government to constantly review its legislation and amend the law as European and international standards evolve on the matter.

Conclusion

The ruling underscores the complexity of addressing prostitution through legal means. While France’s approach aims to combat human trafficking and protect vulnerable individuals, it also faces criticism and demands for ongoing scrutiny and adjustment. The dichotomy of legalizing the sale but criminalizing the purchase of sex continues to be a contentious and ethically sensitive issue, reflecting broader global debates on the most effective and humane ways to handle prostitution.

Source: jurist.org

Selfcare & Sexual Wellness

Le Shaw teams up with Woodhull Freedom Foundation to champion sexual rights and freedom

Le Shaw, the International Sexual Health and Wellness Research Institute, is thrilled to announce its new collaboration with the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, an organization dedicated to advocating for sexual freedom as a fundamental human right. Named after suffragist Victoria Woodhull, the foundation focuses on challenging sexual repression and advocating for the rights and freedoms of all individuals.

Through this partnership, le Shaw will support Woodhull’s mission with its research capabilities and commitment to sex-positive principles. Their joint efforts will advance the dialogue around sexual rights, promote a culture of sexual liberation and human dignity, and help build a more equitable and informed society.

Bobbi Bidochka, Director of le Shaw, was excited to start working together: “The Woodhull Freedom Foundation’s commitment to sexual freedom resonates deeply with our mission at le Shaw. Together, we will work to dismantle the barriers of sexual repression and promote a more inclusive and respectful understanding of sexual rights as fundamental human rights.”

For more information about le Shaw and its partnership with the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, please contact bobbi.bidochka@byborgenterprises.com.

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Etsy Bans Adult Toys and Accessories

Etsy, the popular e-commerce platform, will no longer allow the sale of adult toys and sexual accessories. The company announced this policy change in a recent memo, sparking frustration and anger among its loyal vendors. Starting July 29, Etsy will remove listings for sex toys such as dildos, vibrators, and similar products, as well as items depicting sexual acts, genitalia, or sexually charged slogans related to familial relationships like “daddy” or “mommy.”

Alice Wu, head of Etsy’s trust and safety team, stated the policy was updated to “keep our users safe.” However, vendors have criticized the decision as “lazy” and a “crushing disappointment.”

“The ban will essentially close the doors of many handmade makers in the adult toy realm like ourselves,” said Preston Stevenson, an Etsy vendor, in an interview with The Guardian. For small shops like his, which have invested significant time on Etsy, the 30 days’ notice is insufficient to transition to a new platform with similar traffic and exposure.

Stevenson and his partner Laura Norden, who have been selling handmade sex toys since 2018, expressed concern that their site traffic will not recover if they move to another platform. “Bans like this one further the idea that sexual health and pleasure are taboo or something to be ashamed of,” he added. “It has broader impacts on society as a whole.”

Alexandra Houston, founder of the UK-based fetish apparel platform Charmskool, criticized Etsy for catering to the mass market instead of remaining loyal to its users. “Etsy wants anything creative as long as it is beige and middle of the road. It doesn’t want anything risqué anymore,” Houston told The Guardian, noting an increase in former Etsy vendors migrating to Charmskool.

Simply Elegant Glass, another affected vendor, penned an open letter to Etsy on Twitter, condemning the company for its “lazy solution” under the guise of community safety. “Protecting children from adult content is a noble interest, and we agree it should be pursued. But that’s not what you’re doing here, is it?” the vendor wrote, arguing that a blanket ban is an easy fix for non-compliance issues Etsy created. “It’s a solution that targets buyer retention and appeases investors and advertisers.”

The transition to other platforms is complicated by many payment processors’ refusal to work with vendors advertising adult toys. Anna, founder of Simply Elegant Glass, told the BBC she feels “betrayed” by Etsy’s new policies. “As creators who have helped make Etsy what it is and remained loyal for years, we feel betrayed,” she said, advocating for explicit labeling of sexual products rather than an outright ban.

According to Anna, a large portion of their profits came from Etsy sales, and moving to a new e-commerce site would be like starting from scratch. Other vendors echoed her concerns, worried that new platforms may not generate enough income.

“It’s like having your house burnt down,” Houston said, reflecting on the difficulties of establishing a new business presence after relying on Etsy for years.

This decision by Etsy is not only a business challenge for vendors but also raises questions about societal views on sexual health and pleasure. Many see the ban as a step backward, reinforcing outdated taboos and stigmas.
This decision by Etsy is not only a business challenge for vendors but also raises questions about societal views on sexual health and pleasure. Many see the ban as a step backward, reinforcing outdated taboos and stigmas.

Source: BBC