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Anonymity or Fame which is best for you?

It’s easy to jump straight into a venture or new job when the promise of a better life is there before your eyes. Some individuals or organisations even take advantage of the fact that you make not look before you leap.
Rather than providing help and support to those who really need assistance in these testing times, it seems shameful that anyone would use the situation to exploit! It may simply be the result of misguided ideas and views about the current state of play for models working from home.
One of the things which has the most potential to affect someone who is contemplating working in the adult industry, is whether they wish to keep their ‘day job’ a secret from their friends and family.
It’s easy for those who say, ‘the hell with it, people should be able to live their lives however they want’. The difficulty comes when you actually try to do that. The general consensus about those working in the adult sector is one of disdain and revolt. In some cases, they even assume that all jobs in that area are sex related, when in fact they are not.

What is Right for You?
The crucial thing is to decide what is right for you. Once you have made your decision, you should really try and stick with it and remember that it can often be difficult or impossible to make a change afterwards.

Out in the Open
Option 1 is to say you are perfectly ok with pursuing this career option and being 110% ok with becoming well known in the industry. You could be using an assumed name or your real name. You just need to remember that the more well known you become, the higher the chances are that your real identity will surface.
Unfortunately, this may affect you more than you realise. If you become successful, then you don’t have much to worry about. You may have already built up your portfolio, have savings and maybe own some bricks and mortar.
If you are not quite in that league, you may find yourself being reliant on obtaining an ordinary 9 to 5 job. When you apply for that job, the searches they do may bring up more about your life than you’d like to share with them. In some cases, it could mean you don’t even get an interview!

Is Option 2 the Best Choice?
For most, Option 2 is probably the best route to follow. It allows you the freedom to follow your desired career path and keeps your work life separate from your personal life. This separation is also important as it allows you the opportunity of having some proper downtime.
Everyone thinks that a celebs life is just one big party and many people often dream about being in their shoes. Just imagine though – if every time you wanted to leave your house, go shopping, or simply put the rubbish out, you had people gawping at you, snapping away at you. Even publishing pics of you showing off all your worst angles!

Running Scared
Option 3 is the completely anonymous route and one which is quite hard to follow. It requires full diligence and does not provide much opportunity to make any real progress. You’ll want to always hide your face and be very wary of showing any recognizable features. You are unlikely to feel comfortable in this role and spend much of your time worrying about being found out or recognized.
The likelihood of being identified by someone you know does rely on the fact that they would be partaking in the area you are working in. If they did recognize you, they would then also have to admit to using said site. This does limit their responses a little but will not stop them using other methods to name and shame you. It’s a sad fact that some people would rather humiliate and embarrass than to congratulate their success!

Creating the Ideal Balance
In the main, option 2 seems to offer the most opportunity and safest routes to ensure you have a harmonious working and personal life balance. This does require a certain amount of forethought and an initial period of focus.
Creating a persona that is totally separate from your personal life is crucial to ensuring success. This includes having different email addresses for work, not using your own social media accounts to advertise your adult profile and making sure you are careful with the pictures that you post.

Getting It Right
You should always be aware of what you are posting and where. Pictures for example can show much more than you thought. Instead of concentrating on how you look in the photo, try checking out what’s in the background. You may have pics of your family on the wall behind you, perhaps your phone or pc is showing more than you bargained for. It only takes a couple of minutes to check but can take years to sort if the unwanted information gets into the public domain.
Picture recognition software is now very common. Posting that pic of you lying by the pool on holiday to your personal facebook page is fine but using the same pic to post to your cam profile could prove to be disastrous.

Invest Your Time
If you are serious about your career, you should treat everything you do in a professional manner. Gone are the days when everyone had a manager or an agency looking after their careers and making sure the right pics were published in the right places. Social media now makes everything pretty much instantaneous. It’s so much easier to post something in haste than it is to check it first. You need to be your own agent and take the time to invest in securing your future.
Remember, think first, think twice and even a third time to be sure. You can never be too cautious.
If you’d like some more help and advice on Privacy and How to be Safe with your Online Profile, please take a look at any of my helpful articles.
Love Carla x

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Newcomer? You can do it!

The development of the Internet has allowed many people to work successfully remotely and receive good money for it. The profession of a web model attracts girls and boys who strive for financial independence. Success is not easy, however, if you follow certain rules and follow the tips below, you will succeed, for sure! How to behave correctly? Let’s figure it out.

Do not forget that the members primarily pay attention to your appearance. Therefore, a cam model cannot afford to look bad: great makeup, beautiful clothes, and a wonderful figure will help you create the right image. That is why you should become a regular visitor to beauty salons and gyms.

Don’t run away from your show
If the cam model has decided to go online, then it is worth taking care in advance about drinking, going to the toilets, etc. It is very bad when the model leaves the field of view of the webcam for a long time. Read full article here

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Sex Furniture

If you want to have sex, you can do it without furniture, not to mention “that specialized one”. However, erotic furniture can improve your sex quality and make it much more interesting.
Sex furniture is the actual furniture (chairs, tables, wedges, slings, hammocks, and more.), and special coasters and pillows for greater comfort and experiments with positions and angle of penetration. Such furniture is usually sold in sets so that you can build structures from several blocks for each specific position.
We have made a research and found some of the most popular sex furniture items and yes, it seems to be promising!

Sex Sofa
This furniture is used as a fantasy sofa for couples to explore new fun and excitement, and it supports a variety of angles and positions. It is more than a classic sofa, as it is pre-designed especially for certain positions that “amplify the erotic pleasure”.
TIP: Use it with the right person!

Sex Swing
This type of sex furniture inspires and gives room for imagination. However, at the same time, physical preparation is required. A sex swing is a system of belts, bindings, and sometimes chains, which allows you to make love literally in the air. Thanks to them, you can test new, previously inaccessible positions and bring a little extreme to your intimate life.
TIP: Do a little exercise for elasticity, so you can get pleasure, not muscle soreness! Read full article here

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Discovering sex facts

You can “build” your sex desire
The desire to have sex today is giving you more chances to feel the sexual desire tomorrow and to have sex – tomorrow, based on a study published in the “Archives of Sexual Desire”. Well, and this means that cuddling, or adding some small “sexy” moments, even without having sex, will improve your sexual life in time.

An open-minded person is a potential cheater
A study from the “Personality and Individual Differences” journal, explains that the personality trait associated with cheating is “to be open-minded”. People that are more open to new experiences and who are open to discussing “taboo” subjects are potential cheaters.

How does perimenopause change a woman’s body?

During and after menopause, the hormones start to make changes of the vaginal walls and they become thinner and which means that the vagina lubricates less. This process is also known as “vaginal atrophy”, and lack of natural lubricate leads to difficulties having sex. And a new study found in the “Menopause” journal, shows that the symptoms associated with dryness and sexual pain could come in a period called “perimenopause” – the period right before menopause hits.

Childhood traumas influence sexual experiences in adulthood

A study found in 2019, in Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy”, has shown that people that have experienced childhood traumas feel less satisfaction during a sexual act. Traumas during childhood are associated with “daily psychological distress” and with being “less mindful”, and this leads to less pleasure while having sex.

Not all orgasms are satisfying
Orgasms are not a factor that means that the sex was good. A new study published inArchives of Sexual Behavior”, has shown that 55% of people have experienced so-called “bad orgasm”, and here we talk about those ones that hurt physically, or orgasms less satisfying than previous ones, or those ones that happened in other situations associated with psychological traumas.

Does the word “clitoris” out loud make women think about better sex?

Only by saying out loud the word “clitoris”, women tend to think about better sex, because the “clitoris” is the key to sexual pleasure. Being comfortable with this word will lead to bigger sexual satisfaction, and fake orgasms happen less. The scientists’ research shows that being open to talking about sex, just makes the sexual life better, and even talking about the parts of the body that can “stimulate” the sexual desire, is beneficial for the “improvement” we are looking for when it comes to our sexual life.

Women are still shy to talk about their desires in bed
A new study found in the “Archives of Sexual Behaviour”, shows that 55% of women from the USA have reported having situations in which they felt the need to talk to their partner about their sexual desires, but something stopped them from it. About one in 5 women didn’t feel comfortable having discussions about her sexual pleasures and about one in 10 women never experienced sexual acts in which she felt that the partner has appreciated her sexual satisfaction.

Sex Protects Against Cancer

Based on some studies, men older than 50, that are having sex have fewer chances to be diagnosed with prostate cancer than men of the same age that do not have a sexual life. A study published in the journal  BJU InternationalTrusted Source” have shown that sexual act and masturbation also reduce the risk of prostate cancer. So, sex is proving constantly its beneficial parts.

Sperm quality is directly impacted by orgasm
Having sex frequently improves the quality of the sperm, by increasing fertility, and reducing DNA damage. The study from “European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology” found that men who have sex daily, or ejaculate daily, have higher quality semen after a week than men who did not have sexual activity.

Sex takes away the physical pain
Based on research, sex literally is like a “pill” for some types of pain. During arousal and orgasm, the hypothalamus in the brain releases oxytocin – “the feel-good hormone”Rutgers University from New Jersey has explained that oxytocin helps women to feel less discomfort and pain, especially during that period of the month. Another study published in the “Bulletin of Experimental Biology and Medicine” that the same, oxytocin in men cuts pain perception by half.

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