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Are you a Fingerella?

What does better sex mean? Or… what does intense sexual pleasure mean?
Obviously, sexual pleasures and desires vary from person to person, however, nothing can go against everyone’s expectations, we all want “the boom”.
Today we will discuss fingering. This might resemble an interaction, that appears slightly “teenager” however, this is not necessarily true. When you comprehend the fingers’ utility when it comes to sex and once you know the right “buttons” to stimulate your or your partner’s body’s senses, fingering can bring long and “explosive” pleasures.

As many studies have shown, very few women reach orgasm during penetration, and here we are talking about a limit of 20%. The stimulation of the women’s genital organs is essential for “fingering”. This process should be explored by both women and men because practically, it is more important than it seems and the pleasure brought by a “qualitative” fingering, can be quite high, but we don’t mean here an “automated and mechanical” fingering.
We regularly say that we would like to receive more sex pleasure, intense orgasms, or/and a more “open-minded” relationship in bed, however, how often do we still feel embarrassed to say what we don’t/do really want? Shameful questions or deep desires should not stop you from exploring the “hot spots” that bring you levitation feelings. Enjoy being touched!
Of course, there are many individuals who do not like to be “fingered”, many people who don’t like oral sex, or some who don’t use a vibrator for stimulation. Everyone can be open or not to things like that. It’s perfectly normal. In any case, there are certain individuals who are strangers to what fingering can offer. Are you a fingerella? If so, this article is for you.
You can do fingering with your partner, or you can do it by yourself. You already know the beneficial part of masturbation, which includes knowledge about your body.
Before we go even further, we would like to share a reply made by Dr. Eskander, the gynecological consultant at Ganye Center:
“By keeping your fingernails short and clean, you can reduce the risk of infection. Be careful not to be too rough as this can lead to minute vaginal tears which, in addition to taking a few days to heal, increase the risk of catching an STI, particularly if there is an exchange of bodily fluids.”

The hand itself can be an exceptionally sexual tool if you know how to “use” it. Our fingertips are designed to be soft, smooth, and very receptive, and this way, you can feel in a “responsive” way the signals of the vagina, either it’s about pleasure or discomfort.

Here, let’s divide the subject into pieces. We can start with the “delightful” places of the vulva.
The clitoris is the focal point of sexual pleasure. It has about 8000 nerve endings, and even if it seems to be only on the “outer” side, it deepens into the pelvic area and around the vagina. The first thing is to know the anatomy of the genital organ, otherwise, misunderstanding the “functionality” of the vagina can cause the sensation of pain by touching some sensitive areas while fingering.
Lubricant is a real help if you choose to have a “slippery” fingering. The smoother and slipperier the “subject” is, the longer the pleasure will last. The touch is going to be more intense and satisfying. Even if the body produces natural lubricant, it tends to be straightforwardly impacted by hormones, stress, dehydration, and many other aspects.
The process takes time to feel really pleasant, and begins with 15-20 minutes of “warming up”. As we know, women have a different “warming up” process than men. An orgasm needs a beginning, a middle, and an end to be a complete one.

Note for men:
Usually, men go directly to the center of pleasure – the “clitoris”, which is actually the “finish line”.
It is very important for the stimulation to be gradual, and by increasing the speed, the blood flows through the genitals, and this is bringing the woman close to orgasm.
Persistent and rhythmic movements are the key to stimulate the female genital organ. The body’s
“hot” response does not necessarily mean that a change of movement is needed, it is just a kind of “approval” that what is happening is pleasant and it must be continued.
The finger process does not require penetration to be completed. Inclinations change from one individual to another, so asking your partner’s “consent” to “go inside” would be helpful.
Touching the abdomen, legs, and areas that give “goosebumps”, intensifies sexual “emotions”.
At the point the orgasm is close, the rhythm and intensity of breathing change, and the body tension increases. In order not to lose “concentration”, it is important to keep the focus. Every human has a different “happy ending” process. When close to the orgasm, some people love the clitoris to be massaged hard and intensely, someone else loves to keep the soft touch.
The different human construction demonstrates that the “buttons” that produce “erotic pleasure” usually vary. However, most women love “a gentle touch” and a delicate one. Along these lines, learning something about your own body or your partner’s body can prolong your pleasure and fulfillment.

Great sex needs a little variety, however, a good fingering is a rare thing, and on the off chance that you have a partner, don’t spare a moment to talk and to “indicate” where and how you like to be touched.
Many women notice that men are “somehow rough” with the clitoris, and this occasionally creates discomfort and pain, so communication is significant. In the event that you feel alright, you can show him your technique. Your partner can’t mysteriously discover what you like and don’t like, and what’s ideal for your body. Let your partner look when you touch yourself. Furthermore, using sounds as approval of pleasure can help in the fingering process. Communication can bring more satisfying results than a standard “guide” for an appropriate fingering.

The orgasm delivered by fingering is very intense, and this, at times, can take longer than using a sex toy as a “stimulator”, yet the pleasure is worth the time and involvement. Try not to muddle about fingering, yet feel the body’s responses.
The best fingering is the one where the body and the mind are involved, helping each other to get excited about an explosive “grand finale”. Read more articles here

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Will genetics progress make sex bygone?

According to Hank Greely, the director of Stanford Law School’s Center for Law and Biosciences, human reproduction may become automated faster than you realize.
Greely believes that within three decades, people will no longer have sex as a way to reproduce, and instead rely on genetically edited embryos grown from skin-derived stem cells, not the combination of an egg or sperm, The Independent reported.

According to Greely, this process ensures that the embryo is free from any devastating genetic diseases, and would also be cheaper in the long run because of the money it would save in healthcare over the years. What’s more, Greely predicts that couples would be able to choose other genetic traits in their children, such as physical features and intelligence.

“I don’t think we’re going to be able to say this embryo will get a 1550 on its two-part SAT,” Greely said this week at Aspen Ideas Festival, Quartz reported, “But, this embryo has a 60% chance of being in the top half, this embryo has a 13% chance of being in the top 10%—I think that’s really possible.”

This may sound far-fetched, but the gap between sex and procreation has been widening for the past 50 years thanks to the rise of fertility drugs, embroynic genetic testing, artificial insemination and in vitro fertilisation (IVF). Over the last ten years in the UK, egg freezing has increased tenfold, from just under 230 cycles in 2009 to almost 2,400 cycles in 2019. IVF birth rates in 2019 were three times higher than in 1991, and the use of egg and sperm donors has risen, too. “Now, maybe three or four per cent of the babies born in the developed world are conceived in some manner other than sexual intercourse, and I think in the future that percentage will go up,” Greely adds.

When scientists figure out how to make this work for humans, infertile and queer couples could have biological babies without needing to go through costly and risky procedures like IVF, donors or surrogates. Single people, meanwhile, could produce ‘uni babies’, using both eggs and sperm grown from their cells.

The idea may sound far-out, but according to Quartz, it already happens on a much smaller and limited scale as a way to prevent certain diseases. Although extremely expensive at the moment, advances in stem cell technology will help to drive down the cost. In addition, the amount that the government would save on not having to take care of sick babies would also make this more cost-efficient.
As many of you may worry, this is not the end of sex because recreational sex will always be with us, but it’s the end of sex as a way of procreating.
It will not be the complete end. People will still get pregnant the old-fashioned way, maybe for religious reasons, for philosophical reasons, for romantic reasons or maybe because they are teenagers and the back seat of the car is there.

“Eugenics is a slippery word; it means many things to different people. To some, it’s state-enforced reproductive control. To some, what we had was state-enforced sterilization. To some, it’s any kind of reproductive choice, but those are different things. For me, I think coercion is much more important than the issues of selection. The concern about the state or the insurance company or someone else, forcing you to pick particular babies, worries me a lot more than having parents make choices, though that raises its own set of questions.” Greely said.


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Sports increase your sex drive

Very few people know that sport is about more than just performance and calories. Because sport also promotes performance during sex and the desire for it, this makes your life a lot better than without it.

The sex act itself is usually not classified as a sport. However, the question arises: is sport a sexual activity? During sex, both partners are in motion and perform an activity. Accordingly, an increased calorie consumption takes place.

Although this is not as high as jogging, as a marathon runner or as intensive training sessions. Nevertheless, the relationship is strengthened and your brain releases a mix of positive messenger substances, such as dopamine.

Research suggests that engaging in exercise, sports and other physical activities result in an increase in flexibility and agility among people, thus aiding sexual prowess and performance. Also, it boosts levels of self-confidence, thus allowing you to believe that you are sexually desirable, (due to increased levels of fitness and toned musculature) which in turn also positively affects sexual capability- in providing higher levels of satisfaction to your partners. Apart from these, there are several other factors of sexuality that are also improved due to engaging in sports or exercise, like:

Decreased risks of Erectile Dysfunction (ED): One of the most essential benefits of engaging in sports and exercise is that it lowers the risk of erectile dysfunction in men, due to an increased level of blood flow into your penis as a result of widening of the arteries. In this regard, research also suggests that you don’t necessarily need to be overly fit or sporting to reduce chances of ED – even a brisk half hour walk works wonders.

Improved quality of semen: Research has found that if you exercise or are engaged in some rigorous sporting activity for at least 15 hours per week, you will have higher sperm counts than your inactive counterparts.

Increased libido: High levels of exercise pumps up testosterone levels in men and estrogen levels in women, which leads to better muscle growth and an increased sex drive in both sex.
Increased chances of achieving orgasm in women: If you work out frequently, then the process of arousal works quicker for you and chances of orgasm is faster and with higher intensity, it gets increased exponentially.

Heightened sensitivity: In women, the clitoris contains over 8000 nerve endings, which makes it very sensitive to stimulation, and increases arousal exponentially. Increased physical activity heightens the effect of this stimulus and makes sexual stimulation much more pleasurable.


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Get paid to test Adult Sex Toys

Start-up sex toy company Bedbible has just hired someone from their head of porn research job and now they’re on the hunt for a sex toy reviewer. And it can be you!

BedBible have an opening on their team for a potential candidate to join them in the less conventional working environment of reviewing sex toys.. And the potential candidate would be trusted with everything from “magic wand vibrators and clit suckers to penis pumps” to try out.

The brief job description says the candidate would be:

·       Testing a variety of sex toys in whichever way you’d like

·       Describe the pros and cons clearly for the overall review

·       Advise who you think the toy is most suitable for

A BedBible spokeswoman added: “The ideal candidate should love all things sex-related, be passionate about mind-blowing orgasms, be willing to sample a variety of sex toys, and possess excellent communication skills. The lucky candidate will receive five sex toys from a category of their choice.”

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